What is it about human beings that we so fear old age? - so much so that we spend a vast amount of money, time and energy on fighting the inevitable. We live in a youth obsessed society: the beauty industry is worth billions of dollars. We lesser mortals that live ordinary lives follow celebrities who have "made" it because they were blessed with drop dead gorgeous looks and are able to harness their good fortune by being paid mega bucks to act or model on the world stage.
Studies show that good looking people get on better in life: they're favored above others, get more perks, attract the wealthy, the jobs, the pick of the guys and gals. We're constantly bombarded with images and messages of stick thin models who look like they haven't had a decent meal in years and we try to emulate them so we can get on and look good too. We've been sucked into thinking that we need botox, face lifts and constantly work hard on our external looks. There's nothing wrong with wanting to look good - and using cosmetics and beauty products helps us to do that. I just don't want to be an unhealthy old lady!

I didn't give too much thought to getting older until I was in my 40s. Now in my "third age" I've been learning the tricks of the trade to keep healthy, fit and youthful looking. Exercise, healthier eating, plenty of sleep and holiday breaks, facials, cleansers, masks, toners and moisturizers and home made organic recipes are some of the things I focus on.
So why do we age? Stress, life/work balance, genetics, lack of exercise, eating more processed food don't do a lot of good for our bodies. We've got out of the habit of eating more raw and home made foods; we're more likely to eat out or on the run. Our bodies need an 80% alkaline and 20% acid balance for optimum health. Eating cooked foods makes our bodies more acidic. Hence as we get older our cells break down, we get joint problems, heart and cancer problems etc. Herbal supplements are a good way to kick start what we lack in our diet.

My ideal is to stay healthy for as long as I live so that I don't become a burden on my family and friends. Working, keeping busy, being socially active helps to keep us young; life long learning is good for our brains and staves off old age diseases and so on. When I have more time I would like to write some songs and more poetry, take up the ukulele again,learn another musical instrument and learn a couple of languages. They say that jigsaw puzzles, crosswords and sudoku are all good for mental alertness but they don't do anything for me.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that it's okay to get older; we just need to keep busy, not get isolated from the community, learn new things and keep growing. I'm much wiser now and sometimes I can get away with things I couldn't in the past. For example I don't have to impress people if I don't want to, I can get away with looking frumpy at times or forgetting things. People probably think "poor old dear" but who cares? What do you think? What is it about aging that frightens you?